ମାନବ ଜୀବନର ଉଦ୍ଦେଶ୍ୟ

 

ମାନବ ଜୀବନର ଉଦ୍ଦେଶ୍ୟ

ଗୋଟିଏ ଗୁରୁତ୍ୱପୂର୍ଣ୍ଣ କଥା ମନେ ରଖିବା ଉଚିତ ଯେ ଏହି ମାନବ ଶରୀର ଆମକୁ କେବଳ ଆମର ନିଜର କଲ୍ୟାଣ ପାଇଁ ଦିଆଯାଇଛି। ଟଙ୍କା ରୋଜଗାର କରିବା ଏବଂ ସୁଖ ଭୋଗ କରିବା ମାନବ ଶରୀରର ଉଦ୍ଦେଶ୍ୟ ନୁହେଁ। ପ୍ରତ୍ୟେକ ପ୍ରଜାତିରେ ଉପଭୋଗ ସମ୍ଭବ। ଦେବତାଙ୍କଠାରୁ ଆରମ୍ଭ କରି ନର୍କରେ ଫସିଥିବା ପଶୁମାନଙ୍କ ପର୍ଯ୍ୟନ୍ତ, ସମସ୍ତେ ସୁଖ ପାଆନ୍ତି। ଇନ୍ଦ୍ରିୟମାନଙ୍କଠାରୁ ପ୍ରାପ୍ତ ସୁଖ ସ୍ୱର୍ଗ ଏବଂ ନର୍କରେ ମଧ୍ୟ ଉପଲବ୍ଧ। ଏହିପରି, ଇନ୍ଦ୍ରିୟମାନଙ୍କଠାରୁ ପ୍ରାପ୍ତ ସୁଖ ନର୍କରେ ମଧ୍ୟ ଉପଲବ୍ଧ। କୁକୁର, ଗଧ, ଘୁଷୁରୀ ଇତ୍ୟାଦି। ଖୁସି ମଧ୍ୟ ପାଆନ୍ତି। କିନ୍ତୁ ମାନବ ଶରୀର ସୁଖ ଏବଂ ବିଳାସ ଉପଭୋଗ କରିବା ପାଇଁ ନୁହେଁ। ଏହି ମାନବ ଶରୀର ମଧ୍ୟ ଯନ୍ତ୍ରଣା ଭୋଗିବା ପାଇଁ ଉଦ୍ଦିଷ୍ଟ ନୁହେଁ। ସୁଖ ମୁଖ୍ୟତଃ ସ୍ୱର୍ଗରେ ଏବଂ ଯନ୍ତ୍ରଣା ମୁଖ୍ୟତଃ ନର୍କରେ ମିଳିଥାଏ। ମଣିଷ ଶରୀରରେ ସୁଖ ଏବଂ ଦୁଃଖ ଉଭୟ ଆସେ। କିନ୍ତୁ ମାନବ ଶରୀର ସୁଖ ଏବଂ ଦୁଃଖ ଉଭୟରୁ ଊର୍ଦ୍ଧ୍ୱକୁ ଉଠି ନିଜର ମଙ୍ଗଳ କରିବା ପାଇଁ ଦିଆଯାଇଛି।

ଗୋଟିଏ ମର୍ମସ୍ପର୍ଶୀ କଥା ଅଛି। ଜଣେ ବ୍ୟକ୍ତି ଯେଉଁ ସମସ୍ତ ଭୌତିକ ସୁଖ ପାଏ, ସେ କେବଳ ଅନ୍ୟମାନଙ୍କର ମଙ୍ଗଳ କରିବା ପାଇଁ ପାଏ, ଏବଂ ସେ ଯେଉଁ ସମସ୍ତ ଭୌତିକ ଯନ୍ତ୍ରଣା ପାଏ, ସେ କେବଳ ସୁଖର ଭାବନାକୁ ଦୂର କରିବା ପାଇଁ ପାଏ। ଏହି ଦୁଇଟି ଜିନିଷ ବିଷୟରେ ବହୁତ ଚିନ୍ତା କରିବା ଆବଶ୍ୟକ। ସଂସାରର ସୁଖ କ’ଣ? ଯଦି ତୁମେ ସେହି ଜିନିଷ ପାଇବ ଯାହା ତୁମେ ଚାହୁଁଛ, ତେବେ ତୁମେ ସେଥିରୁ ଖୁସି ପାଇବ। ଉଦାହରଣ ସ୍ୱରୂପ, ଯଦି ତୁମେ ଧନ ପାଇଁ ଲୋଭ କର, ତେବେ ତୁମେ ଧନ ପାଇ ଖୁସି ପାଇବ।

ଯଦି ତୁମେ ବହୁତ ଭୋକିଲା ଅଛ, ତେବେ ତୁମେ ଖାଦ୍ୟ ପାଇ ଖୁସି ପାଇବ। ଯଦି ତୁମେ ବହୁତ ତୃଷାର୍ତ୍ତ, ତେବେ ପାଣି ପାଇ ତୁମେ ଖୁସି ପାଇବ। ଏହିପରି, ଯେତେବେଳେ ଏକ ଇଚ୍ଛା ପୂରଣ ହୁଏ, ସେତେବେଳେ ଏକ ଖୁସି ହୁଏ। ସେହି ଖୁସି ଇଚ୍ଛା ଉପରେ ନିର୍ଭର କରେ। ଯଦି ତୁମେ ବହୁତ ଭୋକ କରୁନାହଁ ଏବଂ ଭଲ ଖାଦ୍ୟ ପାଉଛ, ତେବେ ତୁମେ ଖୁସି ପାଇବ ନାହିଁ। ଯଦି ମନରେ ଲୋଭ ନାହିଁ, ତେବେ ଧନ ପାଇଲେ ସୁଖ ମିଳିବ ନାହିଁ। ଏହାର ଅର୍ଥ ହେଉଛି ଯଦି ତୁମେ କିଛି ନ ପାଇବା ଯୋଗୁଁ ଦୁଃଖ ଅନୁଭବ କରିବ, ତେବେ ସେହି ଜିନିଷ ପାଇଲେ ହିଁ ତୁମେ ଖୁସି ପାଇବ। ଦୁନିଆର ସମସ୍ତ ମିଶ୍ରଣରେ, ପ୍ରଥମେ ଦୁଃଖ ରହିବ, ତା'ପରେ ତୁମେ ସେମାନଙ୍କଠାରୁ ସୁଖ ପାଇବ। ଯଦି ଦୁଃଖ ନାହିଁ, ତେବେ ସଂସାରର ଜିନିଷଗୁଡ଼ିକ ସୁଖ ଦେବ ନାହିଁ। ତେଣୁ, ସେହି ଖୁସିର କାରଣ ହେଉଛି ଦୁଃଖ, ଏବଂ ସେହି ଖୁସି ପରେ ମଧ୍ୟ ନିଶ୍ଚିତ ଭାବରେ ଦୁଃଖ ରହିବ। ଉଦାହରଣ ସ୍ୱରୂପ, ଟଙ୍କା ପାଇବା ଖୁସି ଆଣିଥାଏ ଏବଂ ଟଙ୍କା ହରାଇବା ଦୁଃଖ ଆଣିଥାଏ। ଅନୁକୂଳ ଭୌତିକ ଜିନିଷ ପାଇବା ଦ୍ୱାରା ଖୁସି ମିଳିଥାଏ ଏବଂ ସେଗୁଡ଼ିକୁ ହରାଇବା ଦ୍ୱାରା ଦୁଃଖ ମିଳିଥାଏ। ଯେତେବେଳେ ସୁଖ ଆସେ, ଆମେ ଭଲ ଅନୁଭବ କରୁ ଏବଂ ଯେତେବେଳେ ଏହା ଚାଲିଯାଏ, ଆମେ ଖରାପ ଅନୁଭବ କରୁ। ସେହିପରି, ଯେତେବେଳେ ଦୁଃଖ ଆସେ, ଆମେ ଖରାପ ଅନୁଭବ କରୁ ଏବଂ ଯେତେବେଳେ ଏହା ଚାଲିଯାଏ, ଆମେ ଭଲ ଅନୁଭବ କରୁ। ଭଲ ଅନୁଭବ ଏବଂ ଖରାପ ଅନୁଭବ ଉଭୟରେ ଉପସ୍ଥିତ। ଗୋଟିଏ ପଟେ ଖୁସି ଅଛି ଏବଂ ଅନ୍ୟପଟେ ଦୁଃଖ, କିନ୍ତୁ ଯଦି ଆମେ ଉଭୟକୁ ତୁଳନା କରିବା, ତେବେ କୌଣସି ପାର୍ଥକ୍ୟ ନାହିଁ।

ଜଣେ ସାଧାରଣ ମଣିଷର ବୁଦ୍ଧି ଆରମ୍ଭ ଦେଖେ କିନ୍ତୁ ଶେଷ ଦେଖେ ନାହିଁ। କିନ୍ତୁ ଚିନ୍ତାଶୀଳ ପୁରୁଷମାନେ ଏହାର ଶେଷ ଦେଖନ୍ତି, ଏହାର ଫଳାଫଳ କ'ଣ ହେବ? ଯେଉଁମାନେ ଫଳାଫଳ ଦେଖନ୍ତି ସେମାନେ ଜ୍ଞାନୀ ଲୋକ, କିନ୍ତୁ ଯେଉଁମାନେ ଫଳାଫଳ ଦେଖନ୍ତି ନାହିଁ କିନ୍ତୁ ଆରମ୍ଭ ଦେଖନ୍ତି, ସେମାନେ ପଶୁ। ଜିଭର ଟିକିଏ ଆନନ୍ଦର ପ୍ରଭାବରେ, ଯିଏ ଦୁଷ୍କର୍ମରେ ଲିପ୍ତ ହୁଏ, ଯିଏ ଜିଭର ତିନୋଟି ଆଙ୍ଗୁଠିର ପ୍ରଭାବରେ, ସାଢ଼େ ତିନି ହାତ ଦ୍ୱାରା ନିଜ ଶରୀରକୁ ନଷ୍ଟ କରେ, ତାକୁ ଚିନ୍ତାଶୀଳ ପୁରୁଷ କୁହାଯାଏ ନାହିଁ। ଜଣେ ଚିନ୍ତାଶୀଳ ବ୍ୟକ୍ତି ହେଉଛନ୍ତି ଯିଏ ଭୁଲ କାମରେ ଲିପ୍ତ ହୁଏ ନାହିଁ। ଚିନ୍ତାଶୀଳ ପୁରୁଷମାନେ ଏପରି କାମ କରିବେ ନାହିଁ, ଯାହା ନର୍କକୁ ନେଇଯିବ।

ମଣିଷ ଭିତରେ ଜ୍ଞାନ ସର୍ବୋପରି। ସେହି ଜ୍ଞାନକୁ ଗୁରୁତ୍ୱ ଦେବାକୁ ପଡିବ ଏବଂ ମୋକ୍ଷ ପାଇବାକୁ ପଡିବ। ତୁରନ୍ତ ଚିନ୍ତା କରିବା ନୁହେଁ, ଫଳାଫଳ ବିଷୟରେ ଚିନ୍ତା କରିବାରେ ଜ୍ଞାନ ସର୍ବୋପରି। ପ୍ରାଣୀମାନଙ୍କର ଏକ ତୁରନ୍ତ ଦୃଷ୍ଟି ଥାଏ ଯେ ସାମ୍ନାରେ ଯାହା ଦେଖାଯାଉଛି ତାହା ଠିକ୍, ସେମାନେ ପରବର୍ତ୍ତୀ ସମୟରେ କ'ଣ ହେବ ସେ ବିଷୟରେ ଚିନ୍ତା କରନ୍ତି ନାହିଁ। ଏବେ ଯାହା ପାଅ ତାହା ନିଅ, ପରେ ଫଳାଫଳ ବିଷୟରେ ଚିନ୍ତା କରନାହିଁ - ଏପରି ମଣିଷ ଏବଂ ପଶୁ ମଧ୍ୟରେ କ’ଣ ପାର୍ଥକ୍ୟ? ମଣିଷ କ’ଣ ସେ ଯିଏ ଶେଷରେ ଫଳାଫଳ ବିଷୟରେ ଚିନ୍ତା କରେ?

ତେଣୁ, ଏଠାରେ ଆମକୁ ଟଙ୍କା ରୋଜଗାର କରିବାକୁ ପଡିବ, ଆମକୁ ଆମର ଶରୀର ବଜାୟ ରଖିବାକୁ ପଡିବ; କିନ୍ତୁ ଆମକୁ ସତର୍କ ରହିବାକୁ ପଡିବ ଯେ ଆମେ ଲୋଭ ଏବଂ ଉପଭୋଗରେ ଫସି ନ ଯାଉ। ଗୃହସ୍ଥ ଭାବରେ ଜୀବନଯାପନ କରି ଟଙ୍କା ରୋଜଗାର କର, ସୁବିଧା ଅନୁସାରେ ଜୀବନଯାପନ କର, କିନ୍ତୁ ଲୋଭ ଏବଂ ଉପଭୋଗ ସହିତ ନୁହେଁ। ଏହାର ଅର୍ଥ ହେଉଛି ଆମେ ଲୋଭ ଦେଖାଇ ଟଙ୍କା ରୋଜଗାର କରିବା ଉଚିତ୍ ନୁହେଁ ଏବଂ ଉପଭୋଗ ସହିତ ସାଂସାରିକ ସୁଖ ଭୋଗ କରିବା ଉଚିତ୍ ନୁହେଁ। ଗୀତାରେ ଉଲ୍ଲେଖ ଅଛି ଯେ ଯଦି ଆମେ ଆସକ୍ତି କିମ୍ବା ଘୃଣା ବିନା ଇନ୍ଦ୍ରିୟ ମାଧ୍ୟମରେ ବସ୍ତୁଗୁଡ଼ିକୁ ଗ୍ରହଣ କରୁ, ତେବେ ଏକ ସୁଖ ଅଛି। ସେହି ସୁଖ ଦୁଃଖକୁ ନଷ୍ଟ କରିଦିଏ। ଏପରି ଜଣେ ଖୁସି ଭକ୍ତର ବୁଦ୍ଧି ଅତି ଶୀଘ୍ର ପରମ ଉପାଦାନରେ ପ୍ରତିଷ୍ଠିତ ହୋଇଯାଏ। ତେଣୁ, ଆମକୁ ଟଙ୍କା ରୋଜଗାର କରିବାକୁ ପଡିବ ଏବଂ ଅନ୍ୟମାନଙ୍କୁ ସାହାଯ୍ୟ କରିବାକୁ ପଡିବ; କିନ୍ତୁ ଆମେ ଏହାକୁ ଗଚ୍ଛିତ ରଖିବା ଉଚିତ୍ ନୁହେଁ। ଯେତେବେଳେ ଲୋଭ ଥାଏ, କେବଳ ସେତେବେଳେ ଭଣ୍ଡାର କରିବାର ଏକ ଉପାୟ ଥାଏ। ଜଣେ ଲୋଭୀ ବ୍ୟକ୍ତି ନିଜ ପାଇଁ ଏବଂ ଅନ୍ୟମାନଙ୍କ ପାଇଁ ଟଙ୍କା ଖର୍ଚ୍ଚ କରିପାରିବ ନାହିଁ। ଟଙ୍କା କେବଳ ଖର୍ଚ୍ଚ ହେଲେ ଉପଯୋଗୀ ହୁଏ। ଖର୍ଚ୍ଚ ଏବଂ ଟଙ୍କା - ଏ ଦୁଇଟି ଭିନ୍ନ ଜିନିଷ।

ଟଙ୍କା ଏବଂ ଅନ୍ୟାନ୍ୟ ଜିନିଷ ନଷ୍ଟ କରିବା ମାନବିକତା ନୁହେଁ ଏବଂ କେବଳ ସେଗୁଡ଼ିକୁ ସଂଗ୍ରହ କରିବା ମଧ୍ୟ ମାନବିକତା ନୁହେଁ। ଆବଶ୍ୟକ ସ୍ଥାନରେ ଖର୍ଚ୍ଚ କରିବା ଉଚିତ ଏବଂ ନ୍ୟାୟପୂର୍ଣ୍ଣ ଭାବରେ ଟଙ୍କା ରୋଜଗାର କରିବା ଉଚିତ। ଏହା ହେଉଛି ମାନବିକତା। ଲୋଭରେ ଫସିବା ଉଚିତ୍ ନୁହେଁ। ଖାଦ୍ୟ ଇତ୍ୟାଦି ଖାଇବା ଉଚିତ। ବଞ୍ଚିବା ପାଇଁ, ଯାହା ଦ୍ଵାରା ଶରୀର ସୁସ୍ଥ ରହିବ। ଈଶ୍ୱରଙ୍କ ପୂଜା କରିବା, ଜଗତର ସେବା କରିବା ଏବଂ ଘରର କାମ କରିବା ଉଚିତ, ତେଣୁ ଶରୀରକୁ ସୁସ୍ଥ ରଖିବା ଉଚିତ। ଯଦି ଜଣେ ଭୋଗବିଳାସରେ ଲିପ୍ତ ହୁଏ, ତେବେ ଶରୀର ଭୋଗବିଳାସ ଦ୍ୱାରା ନଷ୍ଟ ହୋଇଯିବ, ଏହା କୌଣସି କାମ ପାଇଁ ଉପଯୁକ୍ତ ହେବ ନାହିଁ। ଜଣେ ଆଧ୍ୟାତ୍ମିକ ଉନ୍ନତି କରିପାରିବ ନାହିଁ, ଏବଂ ସାଂସାରିକ କାମ ମଧ୍ୟ କରିପାରିବ ନାହିଁ। କାରଣ ଅସୁସ୍ଥ ଶରୀର ସହିତ କୌଣସି ସେବା କରାଯାଇପାରିବ ନାହିଁ। ଜିନିଷପତ୍ର ସଂଗ୍ରହ କରିବା ଏବଂ ସେଗୁଡ଼ିକୁ ଉପଭୋଗ କରିବା - ଏଗୁଡ଼ିକ ଭୂତମାନଙ୍କର ବୈଶିଷ୍ଟ୍ୟ, ମଣିଷମାନଙ୍କର ବୈଶିଷ୍ଟ୍ୟ ନୁହେଁ। ଏହା ହେଉଛି ଆସୁରିକ ସମ୍ପତ୍ତି ଯାହା ବାନ୍ଧି ରଖେ।

ମଣିଷକୁ ସଚେତନ ହେବା ଉଚିତ ଯେ ସେ କେବଳ ସଞ୍ଚୟ ପାଇଁ ରୋଜଗାର କରିବା ଉଚିତ୍ ନୁହେଁ। ସେମାନେ କେବଳ ଉପଭୋଗ ଏବଂ ବିଳାସ ପାଇଁ ରୋଜଗାର କରିବା ଉଚିତ୍ ନୁହେଁ; କିନ୍ତୁ ସେ କେବଳ ନିଜର କର୍ତ୍ତବ୍ୟ ପାଳନ କରି ଆଧ୍ୟାତ୍ମିକ ଏବଂ ସାଂସାରିକ ବ୍ୟାପାରରେ ଏହାର ସଦୁପଯୋଗ କରିବା ଉଚିତ। ସେମାନେ ଆଧ୍ୟାତ୍ମିକ ପ୍ରଗତି କରିବା ଉଚିତ। ମୃତ୍ୟୁ ପରେ ସେମାନେ ଯେପରି ଆଶୀର୍ବାଦ ପାଇପାରିବେ ଏବଂ ମୋକ୍ଷ ପାଇପାରିବେ, ସେଥିପାଇଁ ସେମାନଙ୍କର ଦୂରଦୃଷ୍ଟି ରହିବା ଉଚିତ। ଯଦି ସେ ପାପ କରିଚାଲିଥାଏ, ତେବେ ସେମାନଙ୍କୁ ନର୍କକୁ ଯିବାକୁ ପଡିବ, ସେମାନଙ୍କୁ 84 ଲକ୍ଷ ଜନ୍ମ ଦେଇ ଗତି କରିବାକୁ ପଡିବ, ଏହା ବିଷୟରେ ବହୁତ ଚିନ୍ତା କରିବା ଆବଶ୍ୟକ। ମଣିଷର ମୁଖ୍ୟ ଲକ୍ଷ୍ୟ ହେଉଛି ଦିବ୍ୟ ତତ୍ତ୍ୱ ପ୍ରାପ୍ତ କରିବା, ନିଜର କଲ୍ୟାଣ କରିବା। କଲ୍ୟାଣ କ'ଣ? ତାଙ୍କୁ ପୂର୍ଣ୍ଣ ଲାଭ ମିଳିବା ଉଚିତ ଏବଂ କୌଣସି ପ୍ରକାରର କ୍ଷତି ହେବା ଉଚିତ୍ ନୁହେଁ। ସେମାନଙ୍କୁ ସର୍ବୋଚ୍ଚ ସୁଖ ମିଳିବା ଉଚିତ ଏବଂ ଦୁଃଖ ସେମାନଙ୍କ ପାଖରେ ପହଞ୍ଚିବା ଉଚିତ୍ ନୁହେଁ। କେବଳ ଖୁସି ରହିବା ଉଚିତ। ଏହାକୁ କୁହାଯାଏ କଲ୍ୟାଣ, ଏହାକୁ କୁହାଯାଏ ମୁକ୍ତି। ଆମେ ମାନବ ଶରୀର କେବଳ ଏହା ହାସଲ କରିବା ପାଇଁ ପାଇଛୁ, କ୍ଷୁଦ୍ର ସୁଖରେ ଫସି ରହିବା ଏବଂ ବଡ଼ ଯନ୍ତ୍ରଣା ପାଇବା ପାଇଁ ନୁହେଁ।

 ଏବେ ରୁହ ଏବଂ ଏଠାରେ ରୁହ

 ସଚେତନ ରୁହ ଏବଂ ଖୁସି ରୁହ।

Purpose of the human life

Purpose of human life

One important thing to note is that this human body is given to us only for our own welfare. Earning money and enjoying pleasures is not the purpose of human body. Enjoyment is possible in every species. From gods to animals trapped in hell, everyone gets pleasures. The pleasures obtained from the senses are available in heaven as well as in hell. In this way, the pleasures obtained from the senses are available in hells also. Dogs, donkeys, pigs etc. also get happiness. But the human body is not meant for enjoying pleasures and luxuries. This human body is also not meant for suffering pain. Happiness is mainly found in heaven and pain is mainly found in hell. Both happiness and pain come in the human body. But the human body is given to rise above both happiness and pain and to do good to oneself.

There is a poignant thing. All the material pleasures that a man gets, he gets them only to do good to others, and all the material pains that he gets, he gets them only to remove the feeling of happiness. These two things need to be thought about a lot. What is the happiness of the world? If you get the thing that you desire, then you get happiness from it. For example, if you crave for wealth, then you will get happiness by getting wealth.

If you are very hungry, then you will get happiness by getting food. If you are very thirsty, then you will get happiness by getting water. In this way, there is a happiness when a desire is fulfilled. That happiness is dependent on the desire. If you are not very hungry and you get good food, then you will not get happiness. If there is no greed in the mind, then you will not get happiness by getting wealth. The meaning is that if you will feel sad due to not getting something, then you will get happiness only when you get that thing. In all the combinations of the world, there will be sadness first, only then you will get happiness from them. If there is no sadness, then the things of the world will not give happiness. Therefore, the cause of that happiness is sadness, and there will definitely be sadness even after that happiness. For example, getting money brings happiness and losing money brings sadness. Getting favorable material things brings happiness and losing them brings sadness. When happiness comes, we feel good and when it goes, we feel bad. Similarly, when sadness comes, we feel bad and when it goes, we feel good. Feeling good and feeling bad are present in both. On one hand, there is happiness and on the other hand, sadness, but if we weigh both, there is no difference.

The intellect of an ordinary human sees the beginning but does not see its end. But thoughtful men see its end, what will be its result? Those who see the result are wise men, but those who do not see the result but see the beginning, are animals. A sick man who, under the influence of a little pleasure of the tongue, indulges in wrongdoings, who, under the influence of three fingers of the tongue, ruins his body by three and a half hands, is not called a thoughtful man. A thoughtful person is one who does not indulge in wrongdoings. Thoughtful men will not do such things, which will lead to hell.

Wisdom is paramount in man. One has to give importance to that wisdom and get salvation. Wisdom is paramount in thinking about the result, not in immediate thinking. Animals have an immediate vision that whatever is visible in front is right, they do not care about what will happen next. Take whatever you get now, don't care about the result later - what is the difference between such humans and animals? A human is one who thinks about the result in the end?

Therefore, here we have to earn money, we have to maintain our body; but we have to be careful that we should not get entangled in greed and enjoyment. Earn money while living as a householder, live according to convenience, but not with greed and enjoyment. It means that we should not earn money with greed and we should not enjoy worldly pleasures with enjoyment. It is mentioned in the Gita that if we consume objects through senses without attachment or hatred, then there is a happiness. That happiness destroys sorrows. The intellect of such a happy devotee gets established in the Supreme Element very soon. Therefore, we have to earn money and help others with it; but we should not hoard it. Only when there is greed, there is a way of hoarding. A greedy person cannot spend money for himself and others. Money is useful only when it is spent. Expenses and money – these are two different things.

Wasting money and other things is not humanity and just collecting them is also not humanity. One should spend where needed and earn money justly. This is humanity. One should not get trapped in greed. One should eat food etc. for survival, so that the body remains healthy. One should worship God, serve the world and also do household work, hence the body should be kept healthy. If one gets involved in pleasures, then the body will get spoiled by enjoying pleasures, it will not be fit for any work. One will not be able to make spiritual progress, and will not be able to do worldly work either. Because no service can be done with a sick body. Collecting things and enjoying them - these are the characteristics of demons, not the characteristics of humans. This is demonic property, which binds.

निबन्धायासुरी मता। (गीता १६। ५)

Nibandhaayasuri mataa (Gita 16.5)

Human should be aware that they should not earn only for accumulation. They should not earn only for enjoyment and luxury; but he should make good use of it in spiritual and worldly affairs by merely performing his duties. They should make spiritual progress. They should have foresight so that after death they may be blessed and attain salvation. If he keeps committing sins, they will have to go to hells, they will have to go through 84 lakh births, this needs to be thought about a lot. The main aim of human is to attain the divine element, to do their welfare. What is welfare? He should get full benefit and there should be no loss of any kind. They should get the highest happiness and sorrow should not reach them. There should be only happiness. This is called welfare, this is called liberation. We have got the human body only to achieve this, not to get trapped in trivial pleasures and suffer great pain.

Be now and Be here 

Be aware and Be happiness 

Important things you don’t realize you’re doing because you lack confidence

Important things you don’t realize you’re doing because you lack confidence

1. You’re constantly apologizing

When it comes to signs of lacking confidence, this one might surprise you

Apologizing. We’ve all been there, uttering “sorry” when someone bumps into us, or when we ask a question in a meeting

Hoever, excessively saying sorry when there’s no reason to can subtly communicate that you feel lesser than others

This habit might be unknowingly telling the world about your lack of confidence

2. You’re avoiding eye contact

Now, let’s talk about something that’s a staple in the field of psychology: non-verbal communication

Well, here’s the thing: avoiding eye contact is often associated with a lack of confidence

Think about it. When we feel insecure or unsure, we tend to avoid direct eye contact

It’s almost like our eyes are trying to hide what we’re feeling inside

Maintaining good eye contact shows that you’re comfortable, secure, and engaged in the conversation

3. You’re hiding your true personality

When confidence is lacking, it can often lead to a phenomenon where we hide our true personality

This behavior might be a sign that you’re not confident in your own identity and feel the need to fit into others’ expectations

It’s important to remember that it’s okay to be yourself, and those who truly matter will like and accept you for who you are

4. You’re not setting boundaries

Imagine this: Your friend asks you to help them move this weekend. You already have plans, but you say yes anyway

When we lack self-confidence, we often struggle to assert our needs and desires, fearing rejection or conflict

However, constantly catering to others at the expense of our own well-being can lead to stress and resentment

5. You’re not taking proper decisions

People with high self-confidence are not afraid to step out of their comfort zones

They embrace challenges, take risks, and are not deterred by the possibility of failure

On the other hand, if you find yourself constantly playing it safe and avoiding any situation that carries the risk of failure or rejection, it might be a sign of low confidence

It’s about understanding that failure is a part of life and it’s through our failures that we grow and learn

The road to building confidence is through understanding these subtle signs, acknowledging them, and then working to address them

Be now and Be here 

Be yourself and Be happiness 

Human who are really smart but have no social skills display these behaviors

Human who are really smart but have no social skills display these behaviors

1. Overthinking simple interactions

Consider a casual conversation at a party. While most people might enjoy light hearted banter, these women might find themselves dissecting every sentence, word choice, and body language. They can end up so lost in their analysis that they miss out on the actual conversation

While this deep thinking is a testament to their intelligence, it can come off as aloof or disinterested to those who aren’t privy to intense mental process happening behind scenes

2. Sensitivity to criticism

Being smart and being sensitive can often go hand in hand. Many highly intelligent people with limited social skills also tend to be sensitive to criticism

These people put a lot of effort and thought into their work and ideas, and as such, any criticism can feel deeply personal. It’s not just a critique of their work; it feels like a critique of them as individuals

This sensitivity can sometimes make it difficult for these people to accept constructive feedback or handle disagreements gracefully. It’s not that they’re incapable of handling criticism; it’s that they care deeply about work they do and ideas they share

3. Preference for solitude

Highly intelligent people with limited social skills often have a preference for solitude

While socializing and interacting with others can be a source of joy and fulfillment for many, these people often find their satisfaction in solitary activities. This could be anything from reading a good book, working on a personal project or simply spending time in their own thoughts

However, this preference can sometimes be misconstrued as aloofness or disinterest in others. It’s essential for these women to balance their need for solitude with some level of social engagement

4. Misunderstanding sarcasm

Another common behavior among highly intelligent people with limited social skills is misunderstanding or missing sarcasm and other forms of non-literal language

Sarcasm requires a certain level of social understanding and context to interpret correctly. These people, while brilliant in their respective fields, may struggle to catch subtle cues that indicate a statement is meant to be sarcastic

5. Need for clear communication

Highly intelligent people who lack certain social skills often prefer clear, direct communication. They don’t do well with ambiguity or subtleties in conversation

These people are logical and analytical thinkers. They appreciate when things are spelled out clearly and concisely. This means that hints or vague statements can often be lost on them

While this need for clear communication can lead to effective and efficient conversations in some scenarios, it can also create challenges in more casual, social settings where subtlety and nuance are common

Be now and Be here 

Be yourself and Be happiness 

People who never grow up and mature usually display these behaviors

People who never grow up and mature usually display these behaviors

1. Engaging in constant drama

Drama can be addictive. It can bring a sense of excitement and unpredictability that some people find appealing

However, a constant need for drama might indicate a lack of maturity. In fact, science backs this up. According to psychologists, high conflict individuals tend to be emotionally immature

Mature people understand that life isn’t an episode of a reality TV show. They know that real relationships require stability and calmness, not constant upheaval

So if you find yourself constantly embroiled in drama, it might be worth considering whether this is a sign of your own emotional immaturity

2. Struggling with empathy

Empathy is the ability to understand and share the feelings of others. It’s what enables us to connect with people on a deeper level and build meaningful relationships

However, people who haven’t fully matured often struggle with empathy. They find it difficult to put themselves in someone else’s shoes and understand their perspective

Mature people understand the importance of empathy. They know that to truly understand someone, they need to listen, show compassion, and sometimes put their own feelings aside

But empathy is a skill that can be learned and developed over time

3. Over reliance on others

One of the hallmarks of maturity is self-reliance. While it’s perfectly normal to lean on others when times get tough, an over-reliance on others could be a sign of remaining stuck in a childlike state

This behavior can strain relationships and hinder personal growth. Becoming more independent doesn’t mean you have to do everything by yourself

It just means taking ownership of your life and making decisions that reflect your own desires and values, rather than relying on others to do it for you

4. Difficulty with compromise

Compromise is a fundamental aspect of any relationship, whether it be personal or professional

It allows you to find common ground and respect each other’s perspectives, even when they differ from our own

People who struggle with maturity often find it hard to compromise. They insist on having things their own way, and struggle to understand why others may not agree with them

This inability to compromise not only causes conflicts but also hinders personal growth

5. Focusing on external validation

We all like to be liked. It’s a natural human desire. However, people who haven’t quite matured often excessively seek validation from others instead of finding it within themselves

They may constantly seek approval or base their self-worth on the opinions of others    

If you find yourself constantly seeking validation from others, it might be a sign that you need to focus more on developing your self-confidence and finding your own sense of self-worth    

Be now and Be here  

Be yourself and Be happiness

Important things you’re doing daily that show you’re a highly disciplined person

Important things you’re doing daily that show you’re a highly disciplined person

1. You’re an early riser

We’re not talking about those who wake up early only when they have to catch a flight, or when they have an early morning meeting. We’re referring to people who consistently get up early, every single day

Why? Because it offers a head start. It’s quiet, peaceful, and provides perfect opportunity to plan day ahead without any distractions

So if you find yourself naturally waking up early, setting goals for the day before most people have even hit snooze button, This is a clear sign that you are a highly disciplined person

2. You’re dedicated to continuous learning

The world is constantly changing, and to keep up, we need to be lifelong learners. This goes beyond formal education. It’s about having a curious mind and desire to continually grow and improve

If you’re someone who regularly reads, attends workshops, takes online courses or seeks out new experiences for the sake of learning, then you’re showing a high level of discipline

Continuous learning requires time, effort, and the willingness to step outside of your comfort zone. It’s about having the discipline to challenge yourself and expand your horizons

3. You practice mindfulness regularly

Mindfulness is ability to be fully present and engaged in the moment. It’s about acknowledging your thoughts and feelings without being overwhelmed by them

If you’ve made mindfulness a part of your daily routine, then it’s a clear sign of discipline. It takes commitment and consistency to carve out time from our busy schedules to sit in silence, focus on breath or movement and let go of endless stream of thoughts

Practicing mindfulness doesn’t just happen. It requires making a choice each day to dedicate time for this practice. That’s a mark of a highly disciplined person

4. You maintain a healthy diet

Eating healthy isn’t always easy. It requires you to make conscious choices about what you put into yourself

If you’re someone who sticks to a balanced diet, despite lure of fast food and sugary treats, then you’re demonstrating a high level of discipline. It takes willpower to pass up instant gratification in favor of long-term health benefits

Maintaining a healthy diet is more than just choosing right food. It’s about meal planning, grocery shopping, cooking at home and portion control

5. You exercise regularly

We all know the benefits of regular exercise. It boosts your mood, improves your health and even enhances your cognitive abilities. But knowing this and actually lacing up your sneakers to hit gym or go for a run are two different things

If you’re someone who sticks to a regular exercise routine, come rain or shine, then you’re showing a high degree of discipline. Regular physical activity requires dedication, commitment and self-control

Be now and Be here 

Be yourself and Be happiness 

Simple phrases that instantly make you sound classy and sophisticated

Simple phrases that instantly make you sound classy and sophisticated

1. Pardon my interruption

In the world of sophistication, interruption isn’t just about barging into a conversation, it’s about how you do it

A classy individual knows the importance of respecting others’ space and time. And this extends to the way they handle conversations

This phrase doesn’t just make you sound polite, it also shows that you value other people’s thoughts and opinions. It’s an unassuming yet powerful way to command attention without coming off as overbearing or rude

2. I value your insights

In every conversation, it’s important to make the other person feel heard and valued. This is especially true when you’re aiming to come across as classy and sophisticated

For example, if you’re in a discussion about a complex topic, after someone has shared their thoughts, you can respond with, I value your insights on this matter. It’s given me a lot to consider

This not only makes the other person feel respected and acknowledged, but it also sets the stage for you to share your own thoughts. By doing this, you’re not only sounding classy and sophisticated but also cultivating meaningful and respectful conversations

3. Permit me to share

Sharing information or experiences is a big part of our conversations. However, the manner in which we introduce our thoughts can make a huge difference in how they are received

Permit me to share is an elegant phrase that not only introduces your point, but also demonstrates your respect for the listener’s time and attention. It subtly asks for their consent to continue, creating an atmosphere of mutual respect

Using this phrase gives your input a touch of grace and sophistication, painting you as someone who values the thoughts and opinions of others

4. Indeed, however

Agreeing with someone doesn’t necessarily mean you share the exact same viewpoint. You can agree to a certain extent and still have a unique perspective to offer

For example, in a discussion on a recent movie, you might say, “Indeed, the cinematography was stunning, however, I felt the character development was lacking.” This phrase allows you to express your opinion in a nuanced way that highlights your sophistication and class

5. I appreciate your perspective

When it comes to sounding classy and sophisticated, respect is key. And there’s no better way to show respect for another’s viewpoint than by appreciating it, even if you don’t agree

The phrase “I appreciate your perspective” conveys just that. It sends a clear message that you value their viewpoint, even if it differs from yours

For instance, if someone shares an opinion about a book that you don’t agree with, instead of outright disagreement, you could say, “I appreciate your perspective on the book’s theme, but here’s another angle we could consider

Be now and Be here 

Be yourself and Be happiness

Important unconventional habits that indicate a very high level of intelligence

Important unconventional habits that indicate a very high level of intelligence

1. Empathetic understanding

High intelligence isn’t just about excelling academically or solving complex problems. It’s also about understanding and empathizing with others

Highly intelligent people often have a deep sense of empathy. They can put themselves in other people’s shoes, understanding their feelings and perspectives

This emotional intelligence allows them to build strong connections and navigate social situations with grace

2. Reading for pleasure

You’ll rarely find a highly intelligent person without a book nearby. Reading for pleasure, not just for information or work, is a common trait among intelligent individuals

That love for reading has stayed with me, and it’s always a source of joy and mental stimulation

3. Enjoying solitude

While social interactions are vital for a balanced life, highly intelligent people often find solitude stimulating and productive

This preference for solitude isn’t antisocial behavior. It’s about enjoying the space and tranquility to

Finding a flow

Exploring ideas

Diving deep into thoughts

It’s not that they don’t value friendship, but they find joy and fulfillment

4. Constant curiosity

Ever met someone who asks a lot of questions? That’s a clear sign of high intelligence

Intelligent people have an insatiable curiosity. They don’t just accept things at face value; they want to understand the ‘why’ and ‘how’ behind everything

So you see, asking questions isn’t a sign of ignorance; it’s a hallmark of intelligence

5. Valuing knowledge over recognition

The pursuit of knowledge, not recognition or accolades, is what drives highly intelligent people. They have an innate thirst for learning and growing that outweighs any desire for external validation

They find satisfaction in,

Understanding complex theories

Solving intricate problems

Simply learning something new

Valuing knowledge over recognition signifies a deeper commitment to personal growth and intellectual curiosity

This reflects a pursuit of understanding for its own sake, rather than seeking external validation, highlighting a profound dedication to learning and self-improvement

Be now and Be here 

Be yourself and Be happiness 

Adopting these specific habits will keep you looking and feeling young

Adopting these specific habits will keep you looking and feeling young

1. Staying socially active

It’s easy to slink into the comfort of solitude as we age, especially with the hustle and bustle of life taking its toll

Social interactions not only keep us mentally alert but also contribute to our emotional well-being. Particularly, studies have linked social interaction with higher life satisfaction in older adults

That’s why you might find that sharing a laugh with friends over coffee or having a deep conversation with a loved one can make you feel youthful and energetic

2. Maintaining a positive mindset

A positive mindset can be one of the most powerful tools in keeping us young and vibrant

Research has found that consistent negative thoughts and chronic stress can not only weigh us down emotionally but can also manifest physically, leading to premature aging

On the other hand, positive thinking can lead to a sense of vitality and overall well-being

3. Embracing the positivity 

As we age, we often become comfortable with our routines and may start avoiding new experiences or challenges

Whether it’s learning a new language, taking up a new hobby, or even changing your career path, embracing new challenges can keep you mentally agile and promote a sense of accomplishment and youthfulness

Taking on new challenges or goals not only stimulates your mind but also fosters an ongoing sense of curiosity and enthusiasm for life, keeping you feeling young 

4. Think positively

Holding onto grudges can be burdensome and emotionally draining. It’s like carrying around a backpack full of rocks it wears you down, slows your pace, and ages you prematurely

Instead, choosing to avoid of grudges frees yourself from the chains of resentment that bind you to the past and rob you of your youthful energy

That’s why forgiveness is a gift to yourself. It’s about making happiness with your past, so you can live fully in the present

5. Practicing self care

In our quest to take care of everyone and everything around us, we often forget the most important person ourselves

Self-care is nothing less than necessary if we want to keep feeling young and vibrant. And it’s not just about spa days or indulging in your favorite dessert

Instead, self-care is about taking the time to listen to your body and mind, and giving them what they need to function optimally

By treating yourself with kindness and compassion, you’re not only maintaining your physical health but also promoting a sense of inner peace and youthfulness

Be now and Be here 

Be yourself and Be happiness 

People who are polite on surface but deep down display these behaviors

People who are polite on surface but deep down display these behaviors

1. They’re excessively sweet

If someone appears excessively polite or sweet, it could be a facade

It’s not that genuine kindness doesn’t exist, but when every word is coated with sugar, it might be time to question the authenticity

Those who are mean deep down usually overcompensate with an overly polite exterior

Always keep an eye out for consistency in behavior

If the sweetness seems forced or out of place repeatedly, you might be dealing with someone who’s polite on the surface but not so nice underneath

2. They rarely show genuine empathy

Empathy is the ability of stepping into someone else’s shoes and understanding their feelings

It’s a gift of showing genuine care and concern

But people who are polite on the surface and mean deep down often struggle with this

They might nod sympathetically or even offer comforting words, but their actions rarely match their words

It’s as if they can’t truly connect with other people’s emotions or don’t want to

3. They’re quick to gossip

Gossiping is a behavior frequently displayed by individuals who are polite on the surface but mean deep down

They thrive on sharing juicy details about others, often twisting the truth to make the story more entertaining or damaging

So, if someone is constantly filling your ear with tales about others, be wary

4. They’re always playing the victim

They often portray themselves as victims to elicit sympathy and manipulate situations to their advantage

These individuals have a knack for twisting stories and events, making it seem like they’re always on the receiving end of unfair behavior

So, if you notice someone is continually embroiled in conflicts, yet somehow always the ‘victim,’ you might want to take a closer look at their behavior

5. They have a superiority complex

They may act all humble and gracious, but when you pay attention, you’ll notice they subtly put themselves above others

They might regularly compare themselves to others in a way that paints them in a better light

Or they may habitually dismiss others’ achievements while highlighting their own

All these are subtle signs of an inflated sense of self-importance

Being aware of this behavior can help you distinguish between genuine politeness and a facade meant to hide deep-seated meanness

Be now and Be here 

Be yourself and Be happiness 

Important signs a human doesn’t truly know how to take care of themselves

Important signs a human doesn’t truly know how to take care of themselves 

1. Neglects personal hygiene

Personal hygiene isn’t just about looking presentable, it’s a reflection of how a person values their health and well-being

When a human neglects his personal hygiene, it can be a clear sign that he doesn’t truly know how to take care of himself

You might notice that they often smells bad, or that they doesn’t shower regularly. They may not brush his teeth daily, or rarely changes his clothes

2. Struggles with emotional regulation

Emotional regulation is all about being able to manage and control your emotions in a healthy way

It’s about experiencing emotions, understanding them

When a man doesn’t know how to take care of himself, he might struggle with emotional regulation

You might notice that he gets angry or upset easily, or that he reacts impulsively to situations without thinking things through

Underlying these behaviors could be unresolved personal issues that need to be addressed for them to start taking better care of themselves 

3. Overly independent

While being independent is generally considered a positive trait, there can be such a thing as being too independent

Ironically, this extreme form of independence signals a lack of self-care

It suggests that he doesn’t value his own well-being enough to seek help when needed

4. Constant self sabotage

You can see it in the way he perpetually makes poor decisions, even when he knows better.

It’s like they’re doing wrong themselves and they can’t, or won’t, hit the brakes

They might,

Choose the wrong partners

Take up habits they knows are destructive

Repeatedly put himself in situations that are clearly detrimental to his health and happiness

5. Avoids vulnerability

We’re all human, and being human means we’re not always strong. We have our weaknesses, our fears, and our insecurities

For a human who doesn’t know how to take care of himself, showing vulnerability can be a terrifying concept

They might always put on a brave face, pretending that nothing ever affects themselves

They may hide their true feelings and emotions behind a wall of stoicism or indifference

But deep down, they may be struggling. They may be hurting

Be now and Be here 

Be yourself and Be happiness 

If anyone truly loves you then they instinctively display these behaviors

 If anyone truly loves you then they instinctively display these behaviors

1. They listens to you

One of the most fundamental ways a man shows love is through attentive listening

We’ve all been in conversations where we’re speaking, but the other person isn’t really hearing us

But when someone truly loves you, they will be genuinely interested in what you have to say. Whether it’s about your day at work, your thoughts on a recent movie you’ve seen, or something deeper like your dreams and aspirations they’ll listen

This act of listening not only shows respect but also demonstrates his love for you. It’s an affirmation that your voice matters to him, and he values your thoughts and feelings. This is one of the instinctive behaviors that indicate his genuine love for you

2. They makes sacrifices for you

Sacrifice is a potent indicator of love. When a man is truly in love, he’ll make sacrifices for you without a second thought

It wasn’t about grand gestures or trying to play the hero. It was about prioritizing well-being over desires. That’s what love is about, putting the other person’s needs above your own

3. They supports your ambitions

When someone is deeply in love, they doesn’t just care about the present, but they also invested in your future. They’ll support your dreams and ambitions, even if they seem far-fetched or challenging

If a man truly loves you, he’ll encourage you to chase your dreams, no matter how big or small. He won’t belittle your aspirations; instead, he’ll be your biggest cheerleader, providing the emotional support you need to reach for the stars

This supportive behavior is a strong sign of his love and commitment to you and your shared future together

4. Respects your space

Love doesn’t mean being together every single moment. A human who truly loves you understands the importance of personal space and respects it

This respect for your personal space not only shows his understanding but also his trust in you and the relationship. It’s a clear sign that he loves you for who you are and wants you to flourish as an individual, even while being part of a couple

5. They Stands up for you

When a human is truly in love, he’ll instinctively stand up for you. Whether it’s in a heated discussion with friends or a disagreement with family members, he’ll be there to defend you

This doesn’t mean they’ll ’ll blindly support you even when you’re wrong. But he’ll always be on your side, ready to protect and support you. He won’t let others disrespect or belittle you in any way.

This protective instinct is a powerful sign of his love for you. It shows that he values you and will go to great lengths to ensure your well-being and happiness. Remember, a man who loves you won’t just tell you, they’ll show it through his actions

Be now and Be here 

Be yourself and Be happiness 

People who have been unfriend on social media display these behaviors

 

People who have been unfriend on social media display these behaviors 

1. Oversharing

In the digital age, there’s a fine line between being open and oversharing

We all have that one friend on social media who tends to post every minute detail of their life

From what they had for breakfast to their latest emotional breakdown, they leave nothing to the imagination

This is a common behavior among people who often find themselves being unfriended on social media. In fact, oversharing can have tangible consequences

Social media is a public platform. Not every aspect of your private life needs to be broadcasted to your entire friend list

2. Lack of interaction

Social media is meant for social interaction. You like, comment, share each others’ posts, and engage with people

When you don’t interact with your friends’ posts, it can make them feel like you’re not interested in their lives

But here’s the thing about social media it’s a two-way street. If you want people to care about what you post, you need to show same interest in their posts too

So, if you’ve been scrolling past your friends’ updates without a second thought, perhaps it’s time to change that habit

3. Excessive tagging

Tagging friends in posts or photos can be a fun way to share experiences and memories. But when done excessively, it can quickly become a nuisance

The problem with excessive tagging is that it can clutter your friends’ timelines and notifications

Not everyone appreciates having their feed filled with photos or posts that they may not have a direct connection to

4. Negativity overload

Social media platforms are meant to connect us, to share our joys, experiences, and even our challenges

However, if your posts are constantly filled with negativity, it can put a damper on people’s social media experience

Nobody enjoys scrolling through their feed only to be confronted with one negative post after another

Whether it’s constant complaining, political rants, or endless pessimism, too much negativity can make your friends hit the unfriend button

Try to mix in some positivity with your posts. Share a funny video, a beautiful photo, or a heartwarming story once in a while

5. Inappropriate comments

Engaging with friends’ posts via comments is a great way to maintain connections and show interest in their lives. However, be mindful of the nature of your comments

Inappropriate comments, whether they’re offensive, rude, or simply out of context can lead to you being unfriended

Just like in real life, it’s important to treat others with respect and kindness on social media

 If you wouldn’t say it to someone’s face, it’s probably best not to type it in a comment

So whenever you’re about to post a comment, take a few seconds to read it over and make sure it’s not something that could be misunderstood or cause offense

Be now and Be here 

Be yourself and Be happiness

Important things highly successful people always keep private

 

Important things highly successful people always keep private

1. Personal life details

The line between personal and professional life can often blur. But successful people know the importance of maintaining that divide

Successful people know that oversharing can lead to unwanted speculation and assumptions. And this can distract from the professional persona they’ve worked hard to establish

2. Acts of kindness and charity

Truly successful people often engage in acts of kindness and charity. But you won’t hear them bragging about it

Because they understand that the true value of giving lies in the act itself, not in the recognition they might receive

They find joy in helping others and making a difference. They don’t need to broadcast their good deeds to feel validated because the act of giving is reward enough

3. Future plans and goals

While setting goals and having future plans is crucial for success, highly successful people often keep these to themselves. This might seem counterintuitive, especially when we’re often encouraged to share our goals as a way of holding ourselves accountable

People who share their intentions to achieve a goal are less likely to follow through with them. This is because the act of sharing creates a premature sense of completeness

Successful people are aware of this. They understand that keeping their cards close to their chest not only protects them from potential naysayers but also increases their chances of achieving their goals

4. Personal struggles and challenges

Everyone faces struggles and challenges in their life, but the way we deal with them can greatly impact our journey towards success

Successful people know that it’s essential to face these challenges head-on and use them as stepping stones for growth. However, they also understand that not every struggle needs to be put on public display

By keeping their personal struggles private, successful individuals maintain their professional image and focus on overcoming these challenges without external distractions or judgments

5. Personal beliefs and opinions

In a world where everyone has an opinion and a platform to share it, successful people tend to keep their personal beliefs and opinions to themselves

This isn’t about being secretive or dishonest. Rather, it’s about understanding that certain topics, especially controversial ones, can lead to unnecessary arguments or misunderstandings

By refraining from openly discussing their personal beliefs, successful people allow themselves to maintain an impartial and professional image. They can connect with a diverse range of individuals without letting personal beliefs create barriers

Be now and Be here 

Be yourself and Be happiness 

KNOW THE TRUE CAUSES OF STRESS

Know The True Cause of Stress

When something occurs that has an effect on you to the point of causing a degree of stress and you continue to think about it, to carry it around with you, you give it energy. The more you think about the incident, the greater the energization, until it does indeed cause trauma. It is vital to let go to put the thing down.

A second and more basic way to deal with stress is to realize that the true causes of stress are not events, people, frustration, disappointment, fear, unfulfilled desires, or negative expectations.

Purely and simply, the cause of stress is your attitude toward these things.

Once again: stress is not caused by problems. Events do not cause stress but rather your attitude towards the event. Knowing the cause of stress makes it easier to deal with, for now the appropriate question can be asked. 

The question is not: How can I rid myself of stress? Rather, it is: How can I change my attitude toward events?

The answer is “Switching Your Viewpoint to Love,” which deals specifically with attitudes and how to change them

Along with an attitude change, a change in brain-wave production will alleviate the stressful condition effectively and with immediate results. Stress causes a faster brain wave frequency than does relaxation. When you relax, you slow your brain-wave activity. And therein lies the key.

You may face a situation so filled with stress that you do not see how you can relax, especially during the day. Or you may be under great stress without knowing its cause. Either way, the answer is the same. There is no way to get dark out of a room other than to let light in.

The only way to get stress out of your being is to let in relaxation. You cannot be relaxed and stressful at the same time. When you relax for a period of time every day, you moderate stress.

By moderating it you reduce its negative effect.

The most effective form of relaxation that research, testing, and feedback from millions of our Positive Thinking graduates use is the simple way meditation is taught. First-stage of meditation, slows brain waves and alleviates stress.

To enhance the meditation still further we recommend a second stage of meditation called the Daisy Pond, developed specifically for deep, healthful relaxation. Using the Daisy Pond meditation every day not only moderates stress but also helps to change your attitude toward problems. Daily practice slows down brain waves until you can enter the ten-cycle Alpha level rapidly and easily. Eventually your state of mind changes, and the stress usually disappears altogether.

The Daisy Pond is a visualization fantasy. Read through the description below once or twice before you practice the exercise yourself, or read through it once and then have someone else read it out loud to you as you listen with your eyes closed. Remember that you are free to use your imagination to alter any of the particular images to suit your own ideas of beauty and serenity.

Be now and Be here 

Be aware and Be happiness