People who are polite on surface but deep down display these behaviors

People who are polite on surface but deep down display these behaviors

1. They’re excessively sweet

If someone appears excessively polite or sweet, it could be a facade

It’s not that genuine kindness doesn’t exist, but when every word is coated with sugar, it might be time to question the authenticity

Those who are mean deep down usually overcompensate with an overly polite exterior

Always keep an eye out for consistency in behavior

If the sweetness seems forced or out of place repeatedly, you might be dealing with someone who’s polite on the surface but not so nice underneath

2. They rarely show genuine empathy

Empathy is the ability of stepping into someone else’s shoes and understanding their feelings

It’s a gift of showing genuine care and concern

But people who are polite on the surface and mean deep down often struggle with this

They might nod sympathetically or even offer comforting words, but their actions rarely match their words

It’s as if they can’t truly connect with other people’s emotions or don’t want to

3. They’re quick to gossip

Gossiping is a behavior frequently displayed by individuals who are polite on the surface but mean deep down

They thrive on sharing juicy details about others, often twisting the truth to make the story more entertaining or damaging

So, if someone is constantly filling your ear with tales about others, be wary

4. They’re always playing the victim

They often portray themselves as victims to elicit sympathy and manipulate situations to their advantage

These individuals have a knack for twisting stories and events, making it seem like they’re always on the receiving end of unfair behavior

So, if you notice someone is continually embroiled in conflicts, yet somehow always the ‘victim,’ you might want to take a closer look at their behavior

5. They have a superiority complex

They may act all humble and gracious, but when you pay attention, you’ll notice they subtly put themselves above others

They might regularly compare themselves to others in a way that paints them in a better light

Or they may habitually dismiss others’ achievements while highlighting their own

All these are subtle signs of an inflated sense of self-importance

Being aware of this behavior can help you distinguish between genuine politeness and a facade meant to hide deep-seated meanness

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