1. Over-apologizing
We’ve all met someone who says sorry too often
This person seems to apologize for every little thing, even when it’s clear they haven’t done anything wrong. It’s like they’re constantly on defensive, expecting to be blamed for something
This is a classic sign of low self-esteem, especially in human
Because they feel they need to apologize for their existence. They believe they’re a burden to others and this belief stems from an inherent feeling of unworthiness
Healthy level of self-esteem means acknowledging when you’re wrong and saying sorry when necessary. But over-apologizing? That’s a clear red flag
2. Fear of confrontation
No one really enjoys confrontations. But for human with low self-esteem, it goes beyond mere discomfort. It becomes a profound fear
They often avoid confrontations at all costs, even when it means tolerating unfair treatment or suppressing their own needs. They fear that standing up for themselves might lead to rejection or conflict, which they believe they’re not strong enough to handle
3. Avoidance of eye contact
Eye contact is an essential part of human interaction. It shows attentiveness, confidence, and respect. But did you know it can also reveal a lot about a person’s self-esteem
For men struggling with low self-esteem, maintaining eye contact can be extremely challenging. This is because they often feel unworthy or inferior, and looking directly into someone’s eyes can feel too vulnerable, too revealing
So the next time you’re talking with a man who seems unable to meet your gaze, it might not be disinterest or rudeness. It could be a telltale sign of low self-esteem
4. Excessive need for reassurance
We all need reassurance from time to time. It’s a normal part of human relationships. But when it becomes excessive, it might be pointing towards low self-esteem
Human with low self-esteem often seek validation and reassurance from others. They constantly need to hear that they’re doing okay, that they’re loved, and that they matter. This is because they struggle to find this validation within themselves
5. Difficulty accepting compliments
Imagine giving a well-deserved compliment, only for it to be deflected, downplayed or outright rejected. It can be puzzling, right
However, for men with low self-esteem, accepting compliments can be a real struggle. They may feel undeserving or suspect ulterior motives behind praise
Instead of graciously accepting the compliment, they might brush it off with an “it was nothing” or divert the attention to someone else’s achievements
This difficulty stems from their deep-seated belief that they are not good enough
Be now and Be here
Be yourself and Be happiness
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